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oh hey, DomSubFriends is organizing "Misogyny  201: A How To Know What EVERY Straight Woman Wants To Hear EVER  To Get Those Panties To Drop (and sometimes this stuff works on other people if you happen to not be a straight dude whose inalienable right to get laid as often as possible with whomever is chronically being violated)" this Friday as a lecture/demo presentation.

It's being led by a dude who works for pickup companies.  Yes, this is outright stated in his credentials.

DSF has officially jumped the shark.  And this blurb is describing this dude's teachings as a way of FORCING the issue, because the way people think and feel about others is completely malleable with these simple tricks because "Attraction is NOT a choice".  Remember boys, "no" simply means "try harder" and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

Yeah, i'm going to choose to not want to hear anything this assdouche has to say and i can certainly muster the willpower to not be attracted to him.  How many of you triple dog dare me to troll this event on Friday and fuck up the surefire system?

*Demo/Topic: The Art of Seduction with Peter Tenorio
*This Friday, August 22nd at Paddles
*Time: 8:45 PM - 10:45 PM
*Address: #250 West 26th Street (Bet: 7th/8th Ave--entrance thru the parking lot only)
Free Raffle of SM Videos and/or Adult Toys at all of our meetings and parties.

This presentation will be from a male to female point of view. However the basic principals can be used for all sexes and sexual orientations.
What is a  true meaning of seduction? This class will concentrate how to use seduction in every aspect of life; including  clubs, bars, and streets of NYC. 
How do we reliably create chemistry and attraction with women?  That's the question. 
To many, attraction is something you either have or you don't -- instead the presenter will show you that attraction is a SKILL; and an easily learnable one at that.
You may be a great -- even good looking -- guy with your life together. Yet, approaching beautiful women can be very scary. What are you supposed to say? What if she laughs at you? You don't want look bad in front of her friends -- but especially your friends!
Does getting rejected scare you?
Well, fear no more. It's time for you to finally take control over your dating life and find the girl of your dreams.
Real example: "Tom was one of those cool guys you could just hang with.
He radiated a relaxed, friendly vibe and could hold an interesting and fun conversation on just about anything you could serve up. On top of that, he could talk to any stranger, any girl, no matter how intimidating her looks might be for most. He was a social butterfly and in fact, all women loved him.
So what was the problem?
If you saw him talking to girls you'd see the girls smiling? but after a while, it was clear the women would get visibly bored, his conversation was going nowhere, and poor Tom ended the night the same way he started it. Alone.
Tom wanted desperately to take it further. But he was so afraid of making the wrong move ? of turning her off and being thought of as a sleazy bar creep or having a drink thrown in his face. He wanted to ask "can I kiss you??" but he knew from experience it was the wrong way to go. So he kept to himself and anguished on the inside -- at least this way, he knew she would still like him.
So girls always saw him as a cool friend they liked to hang with, but never the guy they'd date. I know what it feels like. I've been there. And I can tell you now -- it all boils down to this -- understanding the basic differences between men and women.
THE SOLUTION: Learning female psychology
You will learn:
*What's really going on inside a woman's mind, including what she doesn't want you to know
*The big mistake men make when approaching a girl the first time -- and what to do about it
*A simple 3 step way to get girls to see you as irresistible
*A fun way to make any time you spend with a girl the best she's ever had
*The one thing you MUST know before you approach a beautiful woman
*How to impress a girl with your talents without coming off as conceited or a "show off" *A sneaky way to make her go out of her way to impress you and try to win you over
*What you must do differently when you are talking to really attractive women
*The secret ways women test men - and an effortless way to pass these tests every single time
*The right and wrong way to make physical contact with a girl in public (do this wrong and you'll never see her again - but do it right and you're guaranteed another date that will go very smoothly)
*5 laughably simple ways to use your body to always look confident, composed and relaxed in ANY situation
*And much, much more?
The Presenter's bio:
Peter (Tenorio) has been a top coach for various pickup companies for over a year now, with many success stories to his credit.  He's witnessed the transformation of numerous students - turning dorks to studs and studs to rockstars - as well as his own personal transformation from learning the game. 
Peter's motto is "attraction is not a choice."  Women everywhere seem to assume that a man either is attraction or he is not.  Peter's own transformation, in addition to his skill at transforming his students, proves otherwise.  Tonight he'll be discussing what it takes to become an attractive man who effortlessly draws women to him and has the skill to meet and seduce any woman.

Date: 2008-08-21 05:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]


I have ALWAYS wanted to troll one of these PUA events, but it is so much less effective because I would just obviously be "a loser who doesn't have game".

I downloaded and read one of these books on bittorrent, and you nailed it on the extracurricular sexism bit. The one I read actually had some basic "be confident in yourself" advice (that's fine) and even had some good insights into the kinds of pressures women are under in this society. But their view is that 1) This is gender-essentialist and 2) Those are the levers you use to get women to do what you want.

It's sort of the Republican view of international relations, the only way to be safe is to ALWAYS be in control. If you are constantly manipulating and controlling people, then no one can do the same to you.

Personally, I am not surprised it is being offered as a Dom/Sub thing.

Um. So yeah. Go. Troll. Report back. Make us proud and giddy with laughter.

Date: 2008-08-21 06:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Seriously, do it. It'd be classic. Just make sure you report back to us. :)

Date: 2008-08-21 06:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
LMFAO!! I wish I were in town so I could troll with you. Videotape it pls!! Or at least post in detail in your wacked-out laughable way. :P

Date: 2008-08-21 03:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Or at least post in detail in your wacked-out laughable way. :P

Bare minimum.

Video with wacked-out commentary would be awesome though.

Date: 2008-08-21 07:03 pm (UTC)

Date: 2008-08-21 04:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Funny story about this guy: He tried to pick up my friend, Ardenne, one night. Unbeknownst to him, she and her boyfriend had both been studying PUA techniques and she totally called him on using someone else's line. And, having heard that line, I would have *no* trouble turning him down.

Date: 2008-08-21 06:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Now I want to know what the line was.

Date: 2008-08-21 06:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
It was something like "You know, there are a lot of beautiful girls here, what makes you special?"

Date: 2008-08-21 06:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]

Ahh.. the old "ding 'em with a neg" approach.


Date: 2008-08-21 08:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Yeah. I've had a couple guys try that approach on me, it never works. I'd be really surprised to see it work on anyone.

Date: 2008-08-21 08:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I can see it working. It is part of the classic approach to criticize someone on what they perceive as their strength. If you think you are a good communicator, I hit you with a comment on how you aren't very good at it. If it is something someone uses as a strong part of their self image, they often feel they need to re-validate it. Thus you feel a need to prove to me you are a good communicator.

It's a pretty solid tactic, but it counts on the other person's investment in that image of themselves and the insecurity and cognitive dissonance this creates. Look at Republican election tactics. Liberals/progressives/democrats think of themselves as reasonable and fair-minded and willing to discuss. Therefore Republicans attack them as being none of those things, so Democrats bend over backwards to prove they *are* willing to negotiate and compromise.

Now, the above neg is particularly inept in my view, but the above is my understanding.

Date: 2008-08-21 09:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I know this works with people I'm already emotionally invested in but when it's just some random dude, I really couldn't care less.

Date: 2008-08-21 11:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]

That's always been the flaw I've seen. I suppose in a club culture kind of scene, where being "in" and "hot" is something very important, then maybe it could work. Random insults from most people... *shrug*, I'll just think you're an asshole.

Date: 2008-08-21 10:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
i dont even know ardenne aside from your mentions of her, but i already know she is way too awesome. exponentially so when standing next to this schmuck.


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